Living and training at seven different importance of good communication.
Living and training at seven different importance of good communication.
Neuro – Attha (Foundation of the Meta Coaching) is a discipline on communication quality and communication skills with good Arising from the NLP and science cognitive – behavioral We have identified seven key Difference for unleashing the best communication skills and your efficiency and resource mobilization in the most professional. Communicator and clever as possible.
These seven major difference from the expansion. Meta – Model (see Communication Magic, 2000) and in Meta – States. Model and they have the ability to differentiate the seventh repeat. Who makes all good Communicator.
– What are the differences important?
– What do they mean?
– One does not know the difference how To keep it simple?
Seven major differences. Communicator good
"Genius" in all areas must be different. The main difference sideline and others not. In the area of professionalism. Communicator is related to the difference between the following. -.
1) map and territory.
2) People and behavior
3) the meaning and response.
4) sensory information processing.
5) frame and feel.
Six) to explore and Asserting (questions and tell).
7). Present and desired.
Now when people (perhaps training itself). You can clear these differences and these differences Cinematography communication reduces communication major diseases. You know about the disease? These create a very dis – ease the process of seeking to understand and work from the negotiations. Ellis and Beck in psychology Cognitive – Behavioral description of these ways to make yourself and others. Other miserable.
Confusion – a reality.
– Mind – and read hallucinating.
– Judge, judgmentalism,. exaggerating.
– Emotionalizing: reduce, increase
– Personalizing: over – specified. defensiveness.
– Alleged harm,, insults.
– Focus on the change. Does not focus
By means of seven different major foundation for a strong and deep skills to facilitate the public's best communication Including.
– Knowledge of the senses.
– The ability to offer now and focus on now
– Steps to the observation or witnessing State neutralized.
– The ego out of the way to a "clean" most (The ability to practice an important person).
– Is open and open to comment
Flexible – adjust to real-time feedback and editing programs. -.
– Think of the system and to raise awareness.
– Exploring what is curiously discovered.
– Seeking clarity on the issue. – Definition.
– Solution focused thinking in creating the move.
– The suspension means so it can dia logue realistic.
FRAME MASTER # 1: MAP outstanding and territories.
"Map is not territory" Summary. Wisdom – common sense has never been designed to map the territory it represents. Menu does not eat; Guide to Sex is not love; No personal image. These are different phenomena. They work on different levels and in different dimensions.
So simple but so profound. To simplify and make it easy to forget How and when we forget? When we think (and feel) that what we think. (Map of us) that we recognize what we believe in what we value what we identify with Etc. what is actually deceptive. I still can not not be. The best it can be a good map is useful and fairly accurate about it.
But when we forget we identify. We identify and map the territory. What I think about What is true is the last word in question is certainly more than most. Thinkers, etc., and this explains the popularity equation integrated concrete property rights of royal preaching graduates with Tam. "A" guru to the needs of blind obedience and of course,. fundamentalist in all systems (Christianity, Islam. Liberal, conservative political all. Etc.).
Map of all the stuff from the outside world impact on the feelings and the feelings. (Eye, ear, skin, etc. of you) a map of the idea. Beliefs, understanding feelings and other memories. That you create within about We do not directly deal with the world. But otherwise we are in touch with electrocardiogram. mediated through the sense of us pathways – neuro, cortexes brain belief system of belief. Territory, etc. are all experiences outside world. Words, activities and events "out. Have
Communicator good to know that all of our mapping is fallible and that most of its development is still our best guess. He or she also knows the value. The map is useful in that it can bring us some advice we move the world and experience Map match well enough for us to use or not. To direct our thoughts and our actions. I will facilitate it to the experience? In order to achieve what I want success?
How well do you know that The mapping your mind about what is just a map or not. How much is this frame of mind? How fast you explore and ask questions than to Thep mode "of Tell a claim or advice? How information is perceived by you to your senses is a function of your map is not the world? You have to drive easy way to make a difference. You know that any and every emotion difference between your world map and your experiences in the world or not.
These are questions that help us as our standard. In our development of mapping differences. / Space and meta – Report by the evidence itself is moving through the world known to our (Preecha) we communicate.
FRAME MASTER. # 2: Outstanding people and behavior.
Person not his or her behavior. What we do is different from what we are. In this we have over our behavior. Behavior of our ideas and feelings, our expressions of public understanding and skills development context of our environment and other variables. Many in this behavior, we developed the time being disqualified. (At the time of birth) to various degrees of skill and expertise may be even in a number of areas. Behavior of our second year, 13, 23, 37, or Only 65 have behavioral and reflective learning. The dominant discipline of our other interesting. In that time.
Our behavior, and shall always remain fallible What we are is a function of aptitude. Our ability strengths and weaknesses, opportunities and learn together in any context and time to express themselves. This is a performance. Will lead to success or lack of success. This is an area we call self-confidence and believe in what we can do in our skills and abilities.
What we are, that is very different questions and sizes. Are we? We have a level of life. semantically under the kind of animal instinct that we have a room. To determine what to do and how will We are not born knowing how to how to live how they work. We need to learn; We have learned. Use our thoughts to learn the excellence of the human instinct share
What are we? We have layers of life that has the ability to reflect and build self-concept that we are Thep reflect the exact height. (And the inevitable). Reflect the state of our own thoughts, our feelings, our historical experience, our future generation, our destiny, our values, we mean our This reflexivity is that we have special powers that are beyond the power of our government while. Yourself and create a whole set of the frame. matrix frame
This explains one of the biggest challenges faced in our lives reflect our thoughts manage to reflect change The problem is that if we do not manage our thoughts, we can improve. Spin, we can reflect myself with anger. Fear, anxiety and suffering. Etc., then reflected anger – at – of our fears and our anger a lot of stress and humiliation. Guilty to the floor when the floor etc. and we can create sabotaging our own way to move through the world.
No matter when you are just trying to gather information that you communicate and we can set Yourself and others in a spin. Depending on what we. Meta meta states with other states and manual. Or others with suspicion. Fear, anger, hate, judge, etc.. And communication is more. War is misleading. A misunderstanding, mayhem and danger.
No wonder people different behaviors. / This is important for a more professional. Communicator over my behavior; More than your behavior. Behavior and behavior is always wrong is always game for editing and fine Talk about not talking about behavior. We eventually be But if we do not make a difference we will feel we are being attacked themselves. And to elicit defensiveness, judge. Shouted, selfish self-righteousness off attacks and counters. escalating answer
Be the different behavior / Step that allows us to rise to cancellation. insultable so that we can defuse those who have "lost it, and judgmental. Blame, blame, etc. We are more professional and good to the extent that we can manage our government. The issue was highlighted and separated from the person.
FRAME MASTER # 3: mean difference and response.
This difference shows the best. NLP premise, "the meaning of your communication, you can not meet the intent of you. ., "And the rest of this location is" We never know how we communicate. We do not know what others hear . 'It was just the response of others that we can begin to discover what other people hear the meaning'. The other created and the intended co-create meaning. (Communications communing of meaning).
Because Neuro – Semantic about the meaning (semantics) to receive communications and applications into the body. (Neurology of us) and that means we do or warrant the phenomenon of mind body system. It is not no outside world. The meaning is not external reality. There is no "out there." You never walk down the streets and stubbled some more meaningful decline. Not the type of things.
Meaning is created. A heart that occur within the system. – Body emotion, and created only from the way we link And is then linked. reflexively for yourself or as a frame of reference within the meaning So the meaning is in response to something external. These completely different because Occur in different dimensions.
Can meet the people begin to hint about the meaning we have in mind that another Some we therefore explore more. You hear anything? That means you. And if that means we find another Any that we have created is not intended to send, we will ask that we can try again. "Unfortunately that is not what I'm trying to say. I'll give it another try.
This means different response. / Young refers to the response of others. Meaning that you do not like to go. Others focused tone is the only response that we give meaning to our destinations. Be consistent with one another. May not be meaningful. If we do not hold the meaning of us and asked us if we do not know that we are not merely hallucinating.
When we automatically. Attribute refers to the rapid response of our people from our map of the world and we have hallucinating. What it means to us We do not have contact We will not let others Meaningful opportunity to submit his or her We will jump to conclusion and may confuse map / Area and then assume that we create meaning is something else. That is saying or doing is. A great way to build. confusions and distortions, and completely destroy the relationship.
To avoid that we need to meet different meaning. / For the benefit of us and do the one. For our most challenging production. – Meaning to do is hold us and explore the meaning of a state other than allowed. over – the meaning of our trust. This is the best. To communicate them know that they do not know. They know that seduction is the world's most meaning from the structure of our (Our matrix) and A agreed. Our filters.
Also note that the formula for the blind and deaf to others. Is the only witness the response and the response is different from the meaning. So important in the game.
MASTER FRAME # 4: The different sensory information and evaluation.
When I had my first NLP training with Richard Bandler, a stop repeating over and over. It is this "If you're a professional. Communicator, you need to extract data from the sensory evaluation. Information if you do not you do organization-communication . This guide first Meta – Model on the map how to sort out internal Definition of a map for us to question the accuracy and meet the others at his or her map of the world instead of our map.
Sensory information arises as a data Events and their impact on the feelings and the feelings of our first outside our conscious awareness. By the time he came in knowing we have the feeling "of seeing. Sense of hearing, smell and taste and give us information. representationally. To track information screen movies of our minds. When we started doing that in our film we. The world in mind and bring back to our own. There is also a stroke of genius from NLP that we think of language, sensory images, sounds, feelings, etc..
All this is very different from evaluating data While both have an idea before we feel we represent will assess about it. This is a process meta – Notification of move from the minds of our own and the thoughts and feelings more. Other in doing so, we abstract the higher level for us to conclude that. generalizations. A distortion, making decisions. Artificial believe the intent etc..
You can tell that you or others in a logical increase in assessed if you can not put conditions on word Phrases or language, we can put on the table. referents of the words touch on a table or chair or in the wheelbarrow. Chair heather dogs who have large nose. Enter the referents, we can not evaluate the language on the table. Good, bad, bright, frustrated, rude, mean, beautiful best. Such as assessing what these creatures of the mind.
This is a Meta – Model as a tool to create specificity, accuracy and clarity. We use different language to bring our high level assessment to the screen. representational. Precisely the question that we back down from the matrix of our invention and reality back into the living feel
But this is a challenge. Most of us are simple. Hypnosis and seduced by the language assessment and does not feel / The difference evaluation. Some people say that, "he means. He served the damage. "And we closed hallucinating and meaning of our invention that is not only about the word. This in no worse "," No Violence "," no mercy "to" no ", which is dangerous." Maintain, "" out there in the sensory world These are words from the world of psychological assessment. If we ask "What do you mean by this term" method You know X "We will not contact us or our colossal sleep trance numb our other
When we say that those who are being protected. Deceptive, incongruent, love, key, easy. Or 10 thousand other things that will have the power to communicate, we want to immediately feel the lack of accuracy can not be tracked. Those words be our direct theater and started the survey questions. Meta – Model If we do not, we will be seduced is. And to the extent that we go numb. We are creating more misunderstanding and distortion. Add us to the next and clear communication.
This does not feel the difference is appreciable. Very good communication and mind reading – then we can judge, even when others have no clue and that is what we are doing. The best of intentions of trying. We understand people do not see the real them. But see them through our filters. Our decision will come out in the most sensitive method that may make it almost impossible for Other impositions that will drive away.
And compassion are the most kindest thing we can do with our loved ones is to penetrate the difference between these senses. / Evaluate information so that we stop imposing the map and their decision. This is not what love.
FRAME MASTER # 5: Frame and feel the difference.
A sensory / evaluation. Differences occur within us, and different levels of experience can feel the difference with a frame. / This is what makes both of these differences are difficult to handle and take training. To develop this knowledge easily. Occurring within and we can jump in. nana Second, if in fact experience. / Evaluation is difficult to handle. Framework makes a Difference may be. Challenges.
Evaluation framework meant to judge the faith we understand the decision criteria and historical value. And will rise from within these In a matrix of opportunities that we feel our Emotion is a "move" (motion) from (former). In response to shell our vehicles will work with our assessment. Can feel the difference between making maps of our world and our experience in this world. We feel that movement and body movement in our thoughts, beliefs and understanding. In our mind about how to make good ideas work in the outside world.
Frames and feelings associated with the system. General framework, we create our emotions. A circular manner. Interact with components of the system means that our emotions can influence and create our image. They are different phenomena. Feeling most of us display frames. That 's why we feel that just because something is in itself a reason to act on it, and certainly not to obey it without Frame may be toxic distorted or wrong.
Feel most symptoms. Our framework and whether we may need to update or change or improve the framework and develop our skills about the world we navigate. arena and while some symptoms are important information. Signal is different from the reason box. Because our emotions reflects the difference between mapping and experience in all our territories are eligible. They must be weighing the difference. They have relatives they are involved in mapping and found. But because of our map could be off and neurology. (Environmental health of our skills, etc.). May invite us to explore the emotions to find out what a difference.
Danger of setting a framework of faith in our thoughts and emotions, we must "be Actual them a big mistake during 1960 to treat mood They have primary emotions rather than vice. Even bigger mistake is thinking that "if we. Some feel that the evidence and prove that what is true. ., "Believe you become a slave of emotions and experiences will be loaded for every mood. semantically, you can come to believe in anything crazy.
If we do that we can become more professional. Communicator if we do not we leave it because we can kiss. Adjust what emotionalize (assuming that we have followed the feeling that we all experience, and if we feel certain it must provide). Reduce, increase, exaggerated, and is powered by torture and other intellectual perversion.
FRAME MASTER # 6: Explore the differences and ASSERTING.
When it comes to communicate with. Dozens on dozens of things we can do with words. But the two main types of surveys and asserting our survey questions were asked. Just wondering so we can witness. First, understand that we confirm the instructions say. The statement concluded some sense be close to other possibilities. And we drive through.
The exploration / asserting two different feelings more effectively. We are powerful when we are standing and asserting we feel good when I say things to people. Preaching and teaching recommendations inform We use the model of our world map and meaning that we have created them, and we are more impressive. And actually have time enough for this The situation as we receive this money. – A lecturer at the University of classroom consultation with expert advice so as to.
Other aspects of this difference than feeling weak. When we are just a survey question seeking to gather information and ask us to understand the place that is open and Emptiness We were not completely sure, some not unbreakable. And the question of how the brain works more like a hundred times stronger. Is caused by nature. Brain is "the best answering machine. . Enter a query into the brain and is necessary to carry out the answer! The question, especially in the brain. One of the main brain can not respond and take over the drive find answers.
How different the instructions or advice. Because every brain is the answer. We have already mapped out some meaningful definition is the idea that we find peace in mind "is thought to work against prevention. Because our minds like Knowledge and interest in what we already know automatically eliminates the idea that inappropriate To say what people can not easily accessible. elicits protection – ego to the idea. (Although a good idea and beautiful). Can not get in..
Of course the communication refers to the community through meaningful work. (Dia "through the" means) and to share and expand the meaning of questions to explore and better methods significantly. That is the main reason. Coach and communication questions. Out of doors they ask a question. They asked questions about their They find the meaning intended major. Etc., they deemed less. And explore intensively When they confirm you can feel the difference.
FRAME MASTER # 7: The difference current situation and need.
Final difference. To become a professional and good. Communicator is the current difference / public interest. This is the ability to view yourself and others and to recognize both the head. This size / then.
Current government questions such as this we now? Where are you now? This happen? What is the challenge problem Limited pros and cons, etc. of the current situation or not. This is the ability to offer that comes in now acknowledge and accept that is what is without. Defend, argue, rationalize or ego protection mechanism or other This course takes a lot. ego – the strength to get something that does not collapse or will enter the flight. Term response.
Wish to state a different time dimension. Other dimension of imagination and envisioning a future where we can go. We elicit this request, we want to go. At that time, if we do not change or not. We will have? Anything related to travel or not. What resources we have? What are the steps and Step along the way? We'll know when we have?
In the current situation, we want to solve problems, skills and abilities in creating the problem better. Not that we could solve pseudo. – By which we may try to work in just a symptom. paradox errors or problems in the state, we need to create better solutions and using The precise question clearly define what we want.
This difference helps to separate the problem and the solution and add clarity to the both of us so that we can think and communicate. We develop strategic plans. Strategies and resources for making dreams come true. This difference helps us. synergize to our energy and inspiration that we create. The system drive and do not suffer out – of incentive equilibrium strategies that we will only push by aversions or pull attractors.
Summary: Rising up to your communication. Excellence
– How to develop these differences in the drama of the communications framework or not.
– Any one of these master keys to communicate with your best At?
– Any one of these keys, you eliminate weaknesses in the original?
– Plan what you are learning and drilling as a model for your reply.
– A type of life or personal training you have or you will have to unleash the power of good communication?
It Neuro – Attha is all about how. We create a framework that we create meaning, language and communication, the best communication is from creating beautiful images and most effective information and communication. And these differences are the most important person who has the power to communicate. About the Author
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